Tuesday, December 31, 2013

“You are the same today as you will be in 5 years except for two things, the people you meet and the book you read” Charles “T” Jones.  I had just completed my last book (Radical by David Platt) for the year 2013. Below is the complete list for the year. To all of you wise women and men who recommended the books for me, my heart is filled with gratitude and my mind is filled with possibilities. Several friends have deeply encouraged me with their integrity. I sense the reality of God when I am with them. The challenge of reading 1 book a month that began in 2009 became habit and a moment that look forward to doing daily. As Richard De Bury succinctly put “These (books) are the masters who instruct us without rods and ferules, without hard words and anger, without clothes or money. If you approach them, they are not asleep, if you mistake them, they never grumble; if you are ignorant, they cannot laugh at you.” The title that I was drawn to takes me to places of hope through pain and loss. The year has been one of deep and profound loss with the passing of my mom as the family were still grieving the loss of my brother, but I am discovering that this is a journey, and along the way I am finding deep joy in depending on Christ for the guidance and comfort only He can provides as he produces the fruit of the gospel in my life.  As I continue to walk this path, I am keeping these things in mind:
  1. Don’t allow the confusing part of life(life can be wonderfully confusing if you are a disciple of Christ) rob you of the confidence in the truth of Christianity. Cling to what you know is true. There is a Loving God, He loves us, He sent His Son to die for our sins, He’s promised to never leave you, and one day He’ll return to make everything right.
  2. Don’t allow your drive toward personal wealth, peace and success stop you from demonstrating LOVE for people. Ralph Waldo Emerson says “most of the shadows of this life are caused by too many of us standing in our own sunshine.” We need to challenge ourselves to follow that abiding sense of responsibility to others, particularly in the acknowledgement of what we have received in life here in America. There are more than a billion people live in desperate poverty, lacking food, water, clothing, and shelter. Spend our resource on something that is gospel centered.
  3. Don’t let disappointment part of life rob you of your laughter.  God has placed this capacity in us to allow us to distance ourselves from events only he has control over. Laughter gave us perspective and allow us to move on.
  4. Don’t let disappointment prevent you from enjoying what is enjoyable about life. Daily, take inventory of your and count your blessing-freedom, choices, family, electricity, jobs etc. Be grateful for the good things your family and friend do for you. Let their imperfection and flaws fill you with hope what is to come.
  5. Any good deed can be closely examined and shown to be less than perfect, but do good anyway. If we wait for perfect motivation before we do anything, we’ll end up doing nothing. Saying yes late is better than saying no at all.
  6. “Our life is a journey, and in the end, each of us will be judged by our standard of life, not by our standard of living, by our measure of giving, not by our measure of wealth, by our simple goodness, not by our seeming greatness”. As Jim Elliot said “He is no fool to give what he cannot keep, to gain what he cannot lose.”
2013 Reading List.
January                “The five people you meet in heaven” by Mitch Albom.
February              “The Oprhaned Adult” by Alexander Levy
March                   “The Body” by Chuck Colson
April                       “In The Name Of Jesus” by Henri Nouwen
May                       “Anything” by Jennie Allen
June                      “Applause of Heaven”  by Max Lucado
July                        “Who Speaks for God?” by Chuck Colson
August                  “Fearless” by Max Lucado
September         “In The Eye of the Storm” by Max Lucado
                                “Weird” by Craig Groeschel
October               “Who is this man” by John Ortberg
                                “Effective Staffing for Vital Churches” by Bill Easum and Bill Tenny-Brittian
November          “Love Does” by Jeff Geoff
December           “Radicals” by David Platt